In casino bars- I keep an open body language, seating is so important. Usually I'll order a drink, tip my bartender r well, find a seat that keeps me open for people coming in and out to see me, or I will seat myself next to someone alone playing a machine, I try not to engage first but sometimes I will. I'll say something like "you winnin'?" As my conversation starter. Sometimes that opens up a conversation, sometimes it's a dud, if so I just move seats.
If I notice someone looking at me I give a wink, and make it known that I'm open to chat. I flirt and I like to use one liners, "I didn't win but hopefully I get lucky with you" wink wink, flirty banter followed lol. Or when they ask me what I do, I immediately follow with "no what do you do?" 9/10 they catch on and won't ask you, and if so once I know they are safe to tell, I make it clear that I am a fantasy provider or something along those lines.
I often allow people to buy me a drink but I'll say "make sure it isn't too strong, I don't like to get too tipsy on the job" and if I'm not drinking I'll say "I don't drink on the job" wink wink. They usually always know what you're doing, so if they approach please know that most of the time they're well aware. If they act like they don't know, or are fishing for information, I just give my number and excuse myself and will usually just text them something like "oh it's pay to play" or whatever when I feel it's safe to do so.
On the floor, I find men that are sitting alone with an open machine next to them, I will often use that same one liner "you winning tonight?" And go from there. In hotel bars/high end bars I try to give off the lone girl vibe, and I like to make eye contact with people that I think are worth chatting with. Many of them will come up to you or offer to buy you a drink, with that I keep the conversation light. A lot of times I just pass out my number and try to finish the transaction/ get my deposit while in my car. If we've been chatting for more than 15 mins and I can tell it's going nowhere, or they aren't getting the hint I will excuse myself and use the restroom, when I come back out I usually will sit somewhere else. All in all, the most important tips are:
-Come up with your own one liners, find something that works with you, something that you're comfortable saying.
-Be open and flirty
-maintain an open body language
-dress casual but sexy, heels with jeans and a cute top, nothing too revealing, but sexy.
-go to high end bars, casinos, hotel bars, lounges, cigar lounge
-check for foreign cars in the parking lot, those are the ones you want to frequent, a lot of times you'll know what kind of men are inside, if the cars outside look right!
-find cities that have conventions going on, lots of sold out hotels etc
- make small talk
-do not be shy, ask them to buy you a drink immediately so they know you aren't interested in men that aren't generous. If they don't immediately buy you one, end the conversation sis. Walk awayyyyy. Your time is valuable, make sure they know this!
-call and check if the bars you're going to are dead, if they are don't go.
-be comfortable scoping out a scene, if you walk in and it's a lot of couples and or no people, find another place.
-every city I go to, I use my notes app and write different high end bars that I went to and I rate them, keep data!!
-If they say "you look so beautiful" I'll say things like "oh really so why haven't you bought me a drink yet?" Or if we're at a casino I'll say "pretty enough to get you to pay for my next game?" Or I'll be like "I spent all my money and lost, maybe I can get lucky with yours" ;)
-be forward!! Men will take advantage of naivety. -know what you want, and stand on that!!